Sometimes, even if two people love each other, they may not be right for each other. Sounds like a contradiction? Not really. Our society assumes that if two people are in love, they should get married. But then what happens after marriage? In many cases, it becomes difficult to spot that love.
Sure, love is definitely needed for a lasting relationship. But what we’re saying is that love is no guarantee that a person is right for us. The problems start when we try to make each other right. Either we change ourselves too much (to meet our partner’s needs) or our partners change themselves too much. And eventually we stop liking who we have become.
So, instead of becoming more loving, we just stop growing --- and instead of the relationship bringing out the best in us it brings out the worst. So, along with love remember that you also have to ensure that for marriage you need to find a person who is `right’ for you.
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