She loved you, adored you, you both had a great time together and were happily progressing in a relationship and then suddenly one day she dumped you without a warning and moved on. You are left pondering… where were the signs? How could you not see it coming? How could you not sense the distance setting in?
But in most probability, signs existed, distances increased and you just couldn’t see the changing equation. Or you possibly didn’t want to see it. But knowing the warning signs is important. If you recognize them early enough, you can take the upper hand by trying to make reparations in the relationship or by preparing yourself for a fall out or by ending it yourself.
Here are seven warning signs that whisper to you that she is losing interest and pulling away from you:
1. She does not call you as often and rarely returns your calls
Earlier she called you quite often and never slept before at least saying a good night. She ached to tell you the events of the day and listen to yours. But now her calls have become sparse and she does not actively return your calls either. The signal is clear - you aren’t on her mind as much as you used to be. Lack of returning calls elaborates that she is trying to put some distance between the two of you. It could also mean that she is busy talking to someone else – a contender for your position of course!
2. She avoids ‘alone’ time with you
A woman in a happy relationship will always look for some ‘alone’ time with you. Those are the most cherished moments for the both of you. But if she is avoiding any chance of being together alone then she is obviously trying to avoid intimacy with you. If she prefers her friends over you and increasingly has less to talk about with you then she is obviously losing interest.
3. She doesn’t adore your touch anymore
Earlier your simple hug or a peck on her cheek put her in a great mood, but if the same hug or a peck now is not welcomed even with a smile and is rather avoided then you should know what you are dealing with.
4. Her career suddenly means everything to her
When you call, does she complain about being disturbed at work? Is she burning the mid night oil at work almost every other night? Has her office become her destination for weekends as well? When you complain, does she retort by saying coldly that her career is her priority and comes over and above everything for her? If yes then the hint is rather clear. She is trying to tell you that you aren’t her focus anymore. Because if she were serious about you, she would have created time for you however busy she may have been.
5. She has lost interest in sex
Sex for a woman means much more than physical satisfaction. So when a woman pulls away from sex, especially in the early stages of a relationship, she is often also pulling away from you emotionally. This is a sure shot sign that tells you about her plans of exit. Decide your action route now!
6. She is always on a lookout for reasons to fight
If she gets upset with you for just leaving a couple of dirty dishes in the sink or for talking loudly or for being just five minutes late then she is obviously switching off from you. Her anger towards you has reached a level where it has become volatile and that’s why even the smallest of non-issues are setting her off. For all you know, by fighting with you so often and expressing her irritation towards you, she may even be hoping that you’ll take the hint and exit from her life on your own without creating a scene. Don’t let this go noticed. Take a call before it’s too late.
7. She avoids being cozy with you amongst friends and public
If she once allowed you to hold her hand in public and hug her from the back but now squirms away, then it simply means that she does not want people to know that you both are together. This is the first step toward an actual breakup.
If she displays one of the warning signs above, she may be just beginning to lose interest or something in the relationship might be troubling her. Figure out the reasons and see if it can be taken care of. If she displays two or three of the warning signs given below, she is definitely not so much into you anymore. It will be tough to salvage the situation but it may be possible. But if you identify with four or more signs, then face the fact that she is not going to stay. Get ready to handle the split.
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